Your transformation begins with your sacrifice. The transformation of shedding and sacrificing the old you, for the new-better-improved you. We always update our phones, computers, and other electronic devices, in order to have latest most improved technology.But we never think to update our personal soul-technology– our minds, our health, our beliefs, our habits, our pleasures and satisfactions.
As a Man, if the same shit that satisfied you in your 20’s is still satisfying you in your 30’s, your not growing! Because I know, when you grow, what once brought you satisfaction changes right along with your growth process. You cant give a teenage boi an action figure toy and expect him to be happy and satisfied! A teenage boi wants some responsibility, a teenage boi wants time and freedom away from his parents!
Just like a 30yr old Man (who is ready to meet the mother of his children) shouldn’t be able to be satisfied with a woman who only has good looks to offer. A 30yr old plus man should be looking for more than just physical satisfaction. He should be looking for emotional support, a care giver, a healer, a nurturer, a woman who has motherly instincts. This is your transformation!
And in order to get to this point where we change & elevate our mindset, update our personal soul-technology, we must first sacrifice the young immature part of us who still wants to hold tight to that childhood action figure toy.
And Coming up, Im gonna show you how to do just that.
I define Sacrifice as: “The act of giving up something valued, for the sake of gaining something else more important”.
Sidney Howard the famous screenwriter said, One-half of success is knowing what you must give up before you get it.
Once you figure this out you’re already half way there. You’re 50% to your success. Most people are not successful because most people don’t do this.
There’s pride, prestige, honor, glory in sacrificing, in being Uncomfortable. Fall in love with your struggle. But most Americans fall in love with comfort.
Thats why the Marines are the most highly regarded organization in world, because of the honor. But no one ask where the honor comes from. The honor comes about after knowing you sacrificed a part of you for something greater than you. Im not promoting the military, im promoting the principles, Its not about you, its not about yo dick, or what other people think about you. Its about yo kids, its about the women in yo life, yo momma, yo sister, aunties, daughters and nieces, its about yo legacy.
You gotta start looking at everything you are attached to, and test yourself. Even the things society thinks are normal. For me, I had to test myself when it came to women, although society would say that its nothing wrong with a Man sleeping with hundreds of women, but as a Man, you cant go off what society thinks is right. You gotta go off of your internal “TruthOmeter”. Anything out of moderation even if its looked at as good must be analyzed and eventually detached from.
Grow some hair on ya chest. Hold ya Nuts and walk away from the stands and onto the field.
This goes for Males, 14-40. Everyone needs to be sacrificing. Im not just speaking about Papa Bear. Im talking about Bear Jr. (your son) also, he needs to have his little ass out here also, getting him some.
Quit trying to be a pro caterpillar and be okay with being a novice butterfly. Wouldnt you rather be a good NCAA player, than a great highschool player. Get ignorant, get curious, get around a new circle of friends, get into a new environment, take a risk, Explore. Dont know it all.
Some of yall would rather be the Man on campus, rather then the ignorant intern at the fortune 500 company.
Quit asking me “where did I get my confidence and conviction from!” “Cosmo, I wanna be confident like you.”
You got no confidence because you havent been through shit. Quit asking me how do I get confidence? im giving you the game right now. Confidence is a sign of an experienced man. Throw yourself into the fire. Thats how Great Men are made. Thats how Diamonds are created, through pressure, not comfort.
I told you before, the Only thing missing in yo life is you!
Quit thinking about yourself and get up off yo ass. Quit thinking about yo first name! This is about yo last. This is For your family. for your chidrens children. For your legacy.
And im gone end with this…“HE IS NO FOOL, who gives UP what he cannot keep, to gain what he cannot lose.”
Sacrifice is the cornerstone of the Alphapreneur.