Giving the fellas the steps they need to take and the moves they need to make, for When She Comes Over. If you want to make sure that tonight’s the night, then you gotta know how to play your cards right. This show is about seducing your women correctly so that you can seal the deal.
Just because you’re within reach of home plate dont mean you still can’ be tagged out if you make the wrong move. Heres the situation? Maybe its a spontaneous fling – you met her at a get-together and there was just instant chemistry Boom-Bing-Bang. Or you could have been going on dates for awhile and now you got her finally back to your pad.
Whatever the situation, the important thing is that you have a women in your presence at your pad, on your couch, who is at least slightly feeling you.
Now you have to capitalize on the opportunity. You gotta execute. However, this is where a lot of things bad for guys, because they don’t play their cards right.
Some of the best advice I got was when I was young, teenage years, was from an older gentlemen I met through a mutual friend. This Man had women all over him, And this dude was a playa for real! A Playa from the himalayas like Jerome say lol.
But who know what his advice to me was, “Just Dont mess it up”. He said “If she’s out on a date with you, then she already likes you, and if she’s at your pad, then she likes you even more, so all you gotta do is not mess it up”.
So Ill shorten his message even more, so Remember this, “Stay Calm, and Game on”.
Here’s what you gotta do in 3 easy steps, 1. Prepare Your Pad 2. Set The Tone 3. Seal The Deal
1. Prepare Your Pad
There is a old saying within the Marines that “Proper Preperation Prevents Piss Poor Performance”. Besides the fact that its catchy and macho, its absolutly true. Front loading your work, (doing a bit more work ahead of the task), not only gives you a distinct advantage when it’s time to perform, but it also reduces the amount of work you need to put in overall.
Your first step is to make sure your place is Female ready. The last thing you need is to get cockblocked by your own apartment. You want your places to be as female-friendly as possible. The main places you want to focus on are the kitchen, bathrooms, and bedroom. These need to be spotless. And all of this is done before she gets there. Take out the trash, change your sheets, air out your rooms, and get your dirty ass laundry out of site.
If you have any questions, just remember; lesser is always better.
Next, you want to make sure that all you’re commodities are stocked. Stock the fridge, yo liquor cabinet, yo weed supply if that’s yo thing, and if you over 55 stock yo Viagra supply lol. Nah but seriously, keep all yo commodities stocked and of course that goes for condoms as well.
Preparation includes strategizing. You want your living room to be set up so that she’ll be sitting on the couch next to you, rather than in the chair across the room from you. This why I say you gotta sit down and meditate on things before you act.
Preparation is a principle. So beforehand, If possible get rid of all unnecessary chairs and furniture. And have some things that you both can do together set up within reach; board games, magazines, art, puzzles, photo books, etc.
2. Set The Tone
Preparing Yo Pad was setting the mood. Now you gotta Set the Tone, or Set the tempo of how things are gonna go.
First off you need to make her feel comfortable, preparing the pad was the first way, but now its making her comfortable with your presence but also with the possibility of sex. And this has to be subtle. Cant be too overt. The more comfortable she is with you and with the idea that sex may happen, the better.
This is where E.F.P. comes in handy. “Everythings For Play”, so don’t take this woman too serious. Dont overthink the shit.
the biggest tip when it comes to talking with a women is that, You control the conversation. And how do you do that- by asking her the questions and listening to her responses.
3. Seal The Deal
So now your in the 4th quarter the game-clock is winding down, if you don’t take the bread out the oven its gone burn.
Now fellas, She will already be nervous; so it’s your job to be her rock. This why I keep telling yo ass to get uncomfortable so that you can provide her comfort. WTF she need with 2 nervous people!
Heres where you start giving stronger subtle hints. Touching more. Laughing more. You gotta make more opportunities to touch her.
Here a problem I see when guys get one-on-one with women, You Give Too Many Fucks! You’re worried bout messing it up. Go back and listen to my show “The Power of Not Giving A Fuck”. Fuck what they think, you’re the captain of the ship.
In order to seal the deal you gotta take the lead…And let me be more clear– you gotta take the lead to the limits that she allows. For instance, When making out on the couch has reached the point to where it’s time to take it to tha bed, you don’t ask for permission; You take her by the hand and lead her to your room.
Now before I wrap up finishing the deal, I gotta touch on the backend of the principle. The negative aspect. And that’s being fine with rejection. Of course no Man wants to get rejected but it happens to the best of us. And that’s okay. No one bats a thousand, no quarterback makes all his passes, you don’t make all the shots you puts up. So you don’t worry about getting rejected.
So If she wants to stop, then you gotta be absolutely fine with that. You don’t argue, whine, bitch moan or complain or ask why. Aint like you gone argue or debate your way into the panties. And attempting to do so is just gon make you look pathetic. The only acceptable response is “I understand,” and you immediately move on to something non-sexual.
Now Back To Sealing The Deal
Just because you’ve slept together, it doesn’t mean that your job is done. Remember patience and maintenance. Now you gotta maintenance the woman. The last thing you want to do is just kick her out of your place like a jackass. Letting her stay the night should be a given, if you can do so, but if she says that she isn’t sure if she’s allowed, then you make the offer. She might decide to stay. Or She may decide she’d rather sleep in her own bed. Either way, you are cool with both.
But heres the kicker, Whether she stays the night or goes home, you call the next day. Not a text. Not an e-mail. not a tweet Or a voice mail. You call her and tell her that you had a great time.
Preparation and attention to detail are the principles that make the difference between a night to remember and a missed opportunity. Once you understand the art of seduction, and the principles inherent within it, you’ll have the confidence and the wisdom to make the right moves every-time.
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