Doing any of these things puts a Man at risk of getting his “Alpha Card” (“Playa Card”) Revoked.
These are usually the mistakes that a Women leaves a Man over. Or the mistakes that keeps a Man from getting a woman entirely.
Todays episode combined with the last episode of the The New Playa Rules for Summer can be thought of as the Do’s and Donts of the Man Code or what I call ACC (Alpha Code of Conduct). Last episode were the Do’s, these are the Dont’s.
Knowing that there exist an Alpha Code Conduct of rules and violations is really reliving on so many levels, becuase It not only makes getting women easier but it makes feeling like a Man better, because it allows me to be confident in my own skin because now I have a roadmap, some guidelines, boundaries, direction from which to live my life by.
Growing up, no one really told me about Man Codes, its something that I had to learn on my own or get by watching other Stand up Men in my life. So these are the codes, and do’s and donts that I learned along my journey of becoming a Man.
stay broke. Well in order to be holistic, and to have complete wisdom of a thing, I think you need to know both. And it simplifies the success process also, because now you immedietly know what NOT to do.
Thats how I lost 80lbs at 16 yrs old. At 16yrs old I didn’t know how to lose weight, I didn’t know anything about health so I started backwards. I started with the backend of the principle. I said to myself how do I stay fat? Because Obviously, Im pretty good at this shit. Over Eating yup. Eating Late at night Yup. Not exercising yup. Not drinking water yup. So then I said okay then I gotta quit doing these things. I didn’t know how to be successful, but I for damn sure knew how to fail. And that was enough.
Now, knowing how to fail and detaching from those habits, doesnt make you an automatic success, but it makes you no longer a failure, and that means your already %50 to your goal.
So likewise, we are focusing on the backend of the principle to identify what not to do. Here’s the 7 Things That Alpha Males Dont Do!
1. Alphas don’t get baffled by a woman’s words or actions
Let me explain. The Alpha Male knows that a woman is different on many different levels – primarily from a emotional, psychological, mental and social standpoint. We understand our brains are wired differently, and an Alpha understands that women communicate, argue and are emotionally affected by things differently than men are.
This is why such a Alpha Male is not easily baffled or angered by a woman’s words or actions. We know that a women will test her man on purpose. We know that a woman will try to get under his skin on purpose. And this isn’t me discriminating against a woman its but its about developing a deeper understanding of the female psyche and how her mind works. And realizing the primal characteristics that Women have vs Men.
But most of the time, niggas is so lame these days that they don’t even make it to being baffled by the womans words, because a lot of guys nuts and soul is captured by eyesight alone. She baffled you just by wearing something tight.
And this is why I tell you all the time, you gotta know the mind of a woman but you gotta also know yourself. You see Women are Auditory creatures (meaning relating to the sense of hearing), Men on the other hand are visual creatures. Therefore… knowing that you already are susceptible to visual corruption AKA Seduction, you need to stay on the look out.
2. Alpha Males dont like other Men and Women, Alpha Males like what Men and Women are about.
Let me explain. Alphas like what a Man or Woman stands for. Their philosophy. Their actions but more importantly their habits. I tell my family this all the time, I don’t look at your actions I look at your habits. Thats how we judge a person.
So We don’t choose our partnership based off emotions and what is comfortable. We examine a persons philosophy and character, and then if they fit within the Scope of the Alpha Preneurs Core Values and principles, then we quote on quote like them.
3. Alpha Males don’t feel insecure about their appearance and style
Why would you feel insecure about your physical appearance when your Not the physical Body for 1. and for 2. Your whole role is to be the mental glue of the family? Your whole duty is to sacrifice your physical well-being in order to protect and provide for your family. This is what Dame Dash was just speaking about. Now of course in this world, this western world you need to look presentable for corporate life we get that, but there is no reason that a Man should feel insecure about the way that he looks, dress and acts.
An Alpha Preneur always feels comfortable in his own shoes.
Question: Why and How is that?
Because he knows himself, his duties, and role, as a Man, and that’s to be the Mental and Emotional Glue for the family. Not the a slave to the physical world, to the material world and what society thinks.
The alpha Knows his role. This is what the Rock meant when he use to say “Know Your Role Jabroni!”.
Why would I care what you think about my physical, when I know my role?
4. Alpha Males don’t go do things just to please others
We know the young guys who start working out to impress girls, or men who read up on wine tasting or learn a classical instrument just so others perceive them as classy. Or Guys who go out of their way to come across as smart, so that their boss and coworkers respect them more.
But The Alpha is not motivated by what others think – their actions are motivated by a sincere desire to improve, learn and develop in a direction that they themselves have chosen. Do you see that? Thats a major difference? Its Impress vs Improve! Thats a distinct difference so don’t mix them up.
5. The Alpha Male isn’t Confrontational, he is Confident.
There is a difference between being confrontational and being Alpha. This is something that immature guys don’t really understand. When you are younger, you think Confrontation equals Masculinity, you think its cool. But Mature men Know better. We have the confidence, self-respect, and self-control to set and enforce boundaries – And THEEEEN….. if others try to push too far then we stand firm and act or attack accordingly. The issue is that Younger Men, “Alphas in training”, wear their confidnece on their sleeve, and when you wear your confidence on your sleeve, another person and come and take your shirt.
Thats why I always say the Game has to be IN YOU, not ON YOU!
6. Alpha Males don’t moan and Complain when faced with challenges
Moaning, bitching and complaining is the definition of Bitchassness. If Bitchassness was in the dictionary, these 3 words would appear in the description.
So exuding or displaying any of these traits is in direct violation of Man Code. Its a simple rule that Alpha Men abide by and have always abided by since the beginning of time– and thats– “either put forth a constructive solution or shut the fuck up until you can find one”.
Alpha Preneurs don’t Moan and Complain, Alpha Preneurs provide Solutions.
7. Alphas don’t let their ego get the best of them or react on impulse. Alphas act rationally.
You know we gotta bring it full circle. In the end, when its all said and done, the mark of a truly Mature man and Alpha Male is his ability to keep his ego under check and to actually think things through before doing something.
Alphas understand that their actions might have undesired consequences but if what needs to be done is for the betterment of the well-being of their family or for the betterment of society as a whole, then Alphas still act, no matter the consequences.
Alphas Act with Ration, Not on Emotion.
And there you have it – the things that a man must learn NOT to do before he can be considered an Alpha Male, and alpha Preneur. If you Keep doing what you doing you keep getting what your getting. Of course No one is perfect, and we could all probably work on some of these things in our own lives, but the key is to keep striving and leveling up to become better Men overall