Women know, to some degree, what attracts men. But guys typically don’t know — beyond common sense — what women find attractive. Volumes of books have been written on the topic. Movies have been made. Scientists have even studied it.
Well good news! Because through my own research, and personal experience of encountering, courting, dating, and sexing numerous women from MANY different cultures around the world, I have compiled some bulletproof results that I know work to perfection.
And one thing I know for sure is that there’s something about Alpha Males that women find very-very attractive. And that is traits. And genuine alpha male traits have nothing to do with looks, or money.
They are specific personality characteristics and behaviors that women naturally find charming and attractive.
And the best news that you will hear all year is that these characteristics can be developed if they don’t come naturally to you.
Let’s take a look at the 13 traits that make a Man irresistible:
This one comes first, because it is crucial to overall attractiveness. Having confidence means knowing your value and respecting yourself, which you display through your body language, presence, and actions. Keep in mind that there is a big difference between being confident and being cocky.
Seriously, what kind of a Man is a Man with no ambition. In my opinion he’s not a Man at all. Every Man should be striving for something bigger & better; rather if its for himself, or for those under his leadership (children, spouse, nieces, nephew’s, grandchildren). Ambition shows that you are still in the fight of life and that you are still striving and stretching. Ambition is the natural aphrodisiac to women.
3. Good Posture and Body Language:
Your presence alone will attract women by itself when it is inline with your true masculinity. This means keeping good energy around you, thinking good thoughts, living good habits, and having a purpose; all of which is going to show in your presence (in your aura). For short term fixes to your aura, you can start by looking people in the eye when you speak to them, standing up straight and looking ahead when you are walking. Ninety percent of communication is non-verbal, so make sure you are saying the right things with your posture and body language.
No one is asking you to cure cancer or solve trigonometry equations, but have common sense, street smarts and some sort of formal education on your resum’e. Its not just enough to have one, an irresistible Man has all three. Do this, and the amount of women that you will attract will multiply greatly.
5. Sense of Humor:
Why is it when girls are asked what qualities they look for in a guy, most say a “sense of humor”?There’s just something about a guy who makes you giggle like a little schoolgirl. Funny guys have a charm and electricity about them that is hard to deny. They want someone who can make them laugh, will laugh at their jokes and can laugh at himself.
This one goes for both of you. You need to maintain a healthy level of independence, and you must allow her to do the same. If you hold on too tightly, refuse to let her hang out with friends or partake in other related behaviors, it will only show that you lack confidence and you will lose her in the end.
7. Be Territorial:
Sometimes you might need to invade her independence. While you dont want to go overboard, she needs to know that you still value, desire, and appreciate her. And being territorial at times is great way to show that. Basically what I am saying (in combination of the last trait and this one) is to find, have, and keep a balance of separation. For example, don’t let other guys hit on her and make it clear that you are together when you go out. What women find attractive is a guy who can balance independence and being territorial effectively.
Having skills or expertise in a particular thing is definitely part of what women find attractive in men. If you have taken the time and made the effort to hone your skills in a particular area, particularly if it is something you are truly passionate about, women will pick up on this immediately and it will increase your attractiveness ten-fold.
9. Being a Challenge:
Women like men who are a challenge to them. In other words, guys who they can’t always get their way with. When a woman is getting to know a guy, she will test him usually by trying to see if she can jerk him around a little bit and if he will just sit there and take it. When a woman starts to mistreat you and you take it, she will lose respect for you. If a woman does not respect you, she will never love you.
Having creative interests and the ability to communicate what inspires you about them is definitely part of what women find attractive. Women want to know that you have hobbies outside of sports and drinking with the guys. Creative endeavors show that you are cultured and have an open mind. This also solidifies and adds value to the last trait because having other interests and passions besides her will make you a bit more of a challenge.
Do you try to understand her before trying to have her understand you? This is major: in the same way that a Man places high value on physical needs (sex), women place a high value upon emotional needs (support/encouragement/compassion). This means that it is your duty to place her needs above your own. Her comfort above yours. She will already be nervous, your job is to be her rock.
Don’t confuse this with being pushy, or forceful. Being assertive (a little aggressive) means knowing what you want and going after it, whether that is a promotion, a date or a dream. This is closely related to Male ‘dominance’ which women love. The right kind of dominance that women find attractive is not the kind where you are constantly telling her what to do or being a jerk. But, being the Man who will take the lead and make decisions rather than constantly asking her what she wants to do.
13. Good, Satisfying Sex:
Contrary to popular belief, women love sex just as much as men do. Therefore, it is important to know her special spots, turn-on’s & turn-off’s, and favorite positions. And if you really want mind-blowing sex then you need to start heating the fireplace before you put the wood in. Compliments. Subtle sexual hints. Stimulating her imagination. Foreplay that starts long before you get to the bedroom. Learn this tactic and she’ll be a wild-animal everytime.
If you can develop and combine these traits and characteristics into your tool chest, then I you will be able to get any woman on this Earth, no matter how big your bank account may be or the amount of material possessions you have. Traits are the key to a woman’s heart (and panties lol).
Freedom Strategist & Mental Game Coach
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